Approximately 50% of us make a New Year's resolution, but most of us give up on it by February.
In 2015, I posted a YouTube video with thoughts on how to improve the odds with better resolutions. This year, I'm suggesting you bypass resolutions altogether. Here's why:
No wonder only 8% of us achieve our annual resolutions!
Clear's solution is to emphasize "systems" over goals. It's a shift from focusing on measurable targets to focusing on the habitual behaviours that improve performance in the long run. If for example, you have the ambition of being a successful author, committing to write for an hour every morning is more likely to bring long-term success than striving to publish a book in a set time frame.
For we fashion lovers, a style enhancing system might involve spending two minutes each evening planning our outfit for the next day instead of a rigid (and fallible) commitment to always "dress our best".
In the Zen Habits article, Instead of Goals or Resolutions, Try Creating Rules, Leo Babauta promotes shifting our focus from goals to the "rules" required to achieve those goals. "A rule in this case is an action you do after a specific event happens, as consistently as you can, which will lead to your goal happening," he says.
Babauta, who is featured in the excellent film Minimalism, stresses the need to keep it simple. "Implement one (rule) at a time. When you’ve done one for a week or two, then implement another, but never have too many going at once."
Based on these expert insights and my own experience
breaking setting New Year's resolutions, I've created a short list of three tips for making commitments that stick:
Using the common resolution of weight loss, the systems approach would reframe your focus from "lose 20 lbs" to "work out three times each week" (i.e. action, not targets).
Start small with an easily achievable schedule, such as 20 minute workouts instead of your ideal hour-long workout. You may in fact work out a full hour most days, but the days you don't won't be "failures" that start to chip away at long-term motivation.
Start with fun by focusing on the activities you really enjoy (hello, Zumba) rather than the activities you loath (can anyone say "free weights"?). It's more strategic to layer in advancements after you've established a strong habitual foundation.
While the stats on New Year's resolutions are sobering, the good news is that those idealists among us who continue to make them are still 10 times more likely to achieve a set goal than those who don't. Use the habit forming tips above to further stack the odds in your favor.